Wednesday, November 21, 2007

The Road To Hell...

I read with interest the Letters To The Editor in this week's Jewish Press. Many of the letters were in response to Rabbi Horowitz's excellent column "You Might End Up Dead." Most of the letters (including one from Rabbi Eli Teitelbaum) supported Rabbi Horowitz's point regarding extremist violence from some Hareidim. However, there was one letter that, while not condoning the violence, seeks to mitigate it. Here's the letter:


I am amused by the sanctimonious expressions of outrage directed against those individuals who attacked that lady on the bus in Israel. While I cannot condone taking the law into one’s own hands, there is an incontrovertible point to be made that one of the Jewish tradition’s important messages to the world is that men and women not married to each other should not mingle with each other.

Rejecting violence is one thing, but let’s not indulge in political correctness at the same time. The young men in question obviously burn with the love of Torah. Their hearts are in the right place, even if they overreacted in their determination to enforce the standards and morality of our Holy Torah.

Yitzchok Melnick

Jerusalem

In short, he's saying that the extremists deserve sympathy because "their hearts were in the right place." Sorry, but that's not good enough for me.

Firstly, there is the question of Mr. Melnick's premise -- that men and women should not mingle with one another. While I'm grant him the obvious point that the Torah truly does discourage mingling of the sexes, there is the very significant question of what represents "mingling."

I travel by public transportation in New York City just about every day. There is mixed seating (and standing) in the subways, but I would hardly call what happens there "mingling." Over 99% of the time I have no interaction with any other person in the subways and buses, despite sitting next to or standing in front of them. Certainly no one has *ever* started up anything that could even remotely touch upon what the Torah would legitimately look upon as inappropriate mixing of the sexes. (Now that could be because I'm short, fat, balding and somewhat dumpy looking, but my general impression is that this is the case for most people.) I don't think that sitting next to a woman on the train or bus is any more "mingling" than passing her while walking in the street. If it were, there would be people seeking to have a p'sak passed that riding on the subway is forbidden. To my knowledge, no one has even attempted such a thing. Thousands of Orthodox Jews ride the subways every day without any question of whether or not it is considered "mingling."

In addition, while in this case, the chayal and the woman weren't married to each other (and weren't even companions), I doubt that even if the couple were married (where we can all agree that "mingling" is allowed) that the extremists would have left her alone (provided, of course, that the husband looked like the type who wouldn't/couldn't fight back). I'm fairly certain that had they been in a situation where no one could question the propriety of them sitting together (husband/wife, son/mother, etc.) that the extremists would have made trouble if they could.

Lastly, I want to address Mr. Melnick's point about their "hearts being in the right place." In this, he's dead wrong again. They weren't "enforcing the standards and morality of our Holy Torah" but rather their own extremist version of it. While they may have thought that "their hearts were in the right place" and that they had "good intentions," we all know where that road goes...

The Wolf

8 comments:

Larry Lennhoff said...

If it were, there would be people seeking to have a p'sak passed that riding on the subway is forbidden. To my knowledge, no one has even attempted such a thing. Thousands of Orthodox Jews ride the subways every day without any question of whether or not it is considered "mingling."

Actually, I have read excerpts in translation from a teshuvah by Rav Moshe Feinstein in which he explicitly permits riding the subway, even though one might accidentally touch a woman due to crowded conditions. The question was raised, but thank Hashem it was raised decades ago and to Rav Moshe, rather than today to some Israeli Charedi Gadol who had never been on a subway in their lives.

BrooklynWolf said...

Larry,

I was unaware of such a teshuva. Do you happen to know where it is?

The Wolf

Larry Lennhoff said...

A few minutes google searching turned up Igrot Moshe, Even Ha-Ezer 2: 14

If you'd care to post a complete translation, I'd be interested in seeing it.

mlevin said...

A few years ago my husband and daughters went to Israel for the first time. One of the trips that we took was to KeverRochel. On the way back my husband and I entered an empty bus and chose a third row, while my girls decided to sit further back. I was at the window sit. When bus started to fill up, one of the Heredim made a big stink over a woman sitting on the third row. Being tourists and in the hostile area, we did not want to cause any problems and moved up a few rows back.

All young men sat down in the first three rows of that bus, but old women, some looked to be in the 80s had to walk to the end of the bus. Where is the respect for your elders?

-suitepotato- said...

Respect for women, elders, and marriage and family would dictate:

Married couples sit together with any and all children

Females and elderly sit at the front

Young men sit at the rear

Neither humility nor piety was shown by those men. Love of G-d was not on their mind, only their inane fear of G-d striking them down for not enforcing their view of how things should be. He's never worked that way.

Anonymous said...

I find it amusing that, while the soldier was just sitting next to the woman, the haredi thugs in question actually put their hands on the woman. I suppose you're patur for shomer negia purposes if the only reason you're touching a woman is to beat the snot out of her.

Anonymous said...

There's a thread on this right now on hashkafah.com

http://www.hashkafah.com/index.php?showtopic=43478&hl=

aaron from L.A. said...

the simple fact is that most Hareidim are short on derech eretz....Perhaps because their derech eretz is literally in drerd.