Shidduch Advice For Men

Far more important than her father's yichus
Are her own middos

Far more important than how long her father will support you financially
Is whether or not she'll support you emotionally

Far more important than her mother's dress size is
Is whether her smile causes your heart to flutter

Far more important than what color table cloth her parents use at the Shabbos table
Is what she talks about at the Shabbos table

Far more important than what elementary, high school or camp she went to
Is what schools and camps she wants to send her daughters to

Far more important than the second cousin twice removed might be off the derech
Is whether she is committed to raising a home filled with Torah values

Far more important than the Torah knowledge you plan to impress her with
Is showing her that you can relate to her on an "everyday" basis.

Far more important than her words towards you
Are her actions towards the strangers around her

The Wolf

(Yes, most of the above could be reversed and be equally applicable women as well... I just felt like writing it from only one side.)