Eeees and I recently attended a fund-raising event thrown by a well-known school in Brooklyn. Here are some of the things I learned:
1. If you're holding an affair at night, start it on time. If not, you're going to run late and end up serving the main course and clearing it off five minutes later in an effort to get back on time. No one wants to have the main course served at 11:00 and taken away at 11:05.
2. If you're going to have a guest singer (even if it's a surprise) don't have him drowned out by the musicians. Let us hear his voice.
3. Make sure your speakers aren't going to sound stupid. There was actually a politician at the event who spoke and told us that we should spontaneously applaud. Someone needs to look up the word "spontaneous."
4. If you're going to have more than two speakers, serve a course (soup?) so that people can eat. If people have food to eat they won't talk through the speeches and I won't have to sit through the speeches looking at the same scary salad for half an hour.
5. Having an affair in a fancy hotel is fine, but make sure you have enough warm bodies to fill up the place. There were tables there that were over 75% empty.
6. Save some space in the journal. No one really believes that Senators Schumer and Clinton actually wrote a letter to your institution to praise you for the good work you do. It's a form letter and a transparent bid to gain an extra dozen votes. No one is fooling anyone.
7. It's nice to invite the graduating class to the affair, but at least make sure that they meet the dress code of the school. It's embarrassing to see a school that makes a big deal on a strict dress code and yet girls show up to the affair with skirts/dresses that are above the knee.
8. If you're going to give gifts to the attendees, give them the gifts on the way out. This way they don't have to hold them and clutter up the table throughout dinner.
9. Lastly, if you're trying to portray the event as a high-class affair, don't give out plastic cups as gifts. It looks cheap and tacky. Send them home with the kids instead.
Gee, sounds like someone had fun. Don't enjoy yourself too much there. By the way, did you get any emails from me?
Nah, I had a good time. We went with friends... and any time you have a night out away from the kids with friends, it's a good time. :)
Also, please try to brief your non-Jewish speaker on the proper pronunciation of your institution. Failing that, poke him in the ribs everytime the person introducing him pronounces the word "yeSHEEvah" so he doesn't get up and talk about his close relationship with "YESH-ihvuh".
True, true. So you're not such an email person?
"a fund-raising event thrown by a well-known school in Brooklyn"
I sure am glad that you were careful to keep the name of the institution anonymous, now nobody will be able to figure it out. Oh, wait...:)
Those yeshivah Dinners are the worst! It's bad enough that I have to pay a $500 "Dinner fee" every year, why would I compound my misery by actually attending the thing?
Since they charge whether you attend or not, I'm not surprised the tables were 75% empty. Maybe if each couple were given $50 cash when they showed up it would drive up attendance.
Incidentally, the program on the "High cost of Orthodox living" showed us all how to be able to afford having up to 10 kids in Yeshiva regardless of our income, but we were sworn to secrecy about the methods. Sorry. :>)
Incidentally, the program on the "High cost of Orthodox living" showed us all how to be able to afford having up to 10 kids in Yeshiva regardless of our income, but we were sworn to secrecy about the methods.
What's the problem? Any money that you spend on their education is not counted in the cheshbon of your yearly parnassah allowance. (But you have to have just boys for that to work.)
Ow. I'd feel bad, but hey, you do live in Brooklyn... ;)
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